Rekindle the Romance on a Second Honeymoon

For years, newlyweds would go on their honeymoons and then start their lives together. Yes, they would take future vacations, but they were generally family trips or vacations with children. Now, many couples are enjoying the rising trend of taking a second honeymoon.

Why a Second Honeymoon?

For many, a second honeymoon is a chance to rekindle the romance in a marriage. It is a way to celebrate a special anniversary or to celebrate renewing your wedding vows. Unlike your first honeymoon, a second honeymoon doesn't have to be an elaborate trip. It can be as simple as a weekend getaway to a bed and breakfast to recharge and reconnect with your spouse.

Where Should We Go?

Planning your second honeymoon is something that you should do together. For some couples, this is different than planning the first honeymoon as many times grooms will plan the honeymoon as a surprise for their brides. Planning the second honeymoon together can make the trip even more memorable. Many couples choose to go somewhere that they have both wanted to visit, or go back to where they enjoyed their first honeymoon. All-inclusive resorts are also very popular destinations for second honeymoons; check when you book to see if the resort offers a special second honeymoon package.

What Makes a Second Honeymoon Special?

One of the most important things for many couples is that their second honeymoon is a trip without their children! Leaving the kids at home (or taking a second honeymoon once the kids are grown and out of the house) is a perfect way to rekindle the romance in your relationship. Many couples also find a second honeymoon far less stressful than their first. Honeymoons generally follow a very stressful time planning a wedding, and that stress can sometimes take away from the trip. There is also the stress of traveling with your new spouse; for many, it is the first time going away together. There are also the stresses that follow from being newly married that are not present on a second honeymoon. For example, my friend woke up after the first night on her honeymoon to realize that her new husband was not a morning person. On their second honeymoon, she knew to make sure he had a cup of coffee before trying to plan their day! A second honeymoon can also be a chance to renew your vows. Check with your resort to see if they offer this opportunity.